How do girls feel when dating a boy alone?

This requires our long-term social intuition to judge. If there is a girl who has nothing to do with you, upgrading too quickly will cause the girl to become uncomfortable, so it needs to be judged in advance.

If a girl has a good impression of you, or even has a good impression of you, then on this basis, the girl will give you some upgrade signals in face-to-face contact [playing with your hair, looking at you from time to time].

If they can realize this, boys should take the initiative not to let girls go home with an unhappy face and think about what we mean to her and whether we like her or not.

But there is a fact before everyone. Most boys and girls still stay in eating, watching movies, and chatting…

The scariest thing is that after a date, a girl will feel like she just had a meal with a boy, a very ordinary meal, a very boring meal.

So we might as well ask ourselves, what are we doing on a date with a girl?

Isn’t the difficulty related to the upgrade? ! !

If you continue to stay at the stage of eating, watching movies, chatting, etc., then after a few times, the girl may be intercepted by other brothers, and the girl’s interest in you will gradually decrease, because the girl wants to find a man. Rather than an elm head.

Now are you thinking about whether this is a bit too fast, and whether girls will be disgusted with us and afraid to make up their minds to do it? Then it is necessary to continue reading the next useful information;

Before the date:

Do you always think about what to say and do when you meet a girl before going on a date?

How to avoid embarrassment.

Many brothers who have just started dating always feel as wilted as a deflated rubber ball when they first meet. So it is conceivable that the date between two people must be extremely bad and end early.

But what I must tell you here is that the cold silence when we first met does not mean that the cold silence lasts, nor does it mean that this is a bad thing.

When there is a cold moment, you can simply chat with the girls;

for example:

Is the road blocked?

The sun is so bright today, do you want to bring a sun umbrella?

You can use the situation and environment at that time to talk to the girl about some delicious and fun things. With a simple opening, you can take the girl to the date place for a formal date.

After arriving at the date place, it’s okay to say, I originally thought it would be awkward for us to meet, but I didn’t expect you to be quite interesting;

The interaction is carried out according to the status of the interaction between the girls at the beginning.

By saying this, the sense of strangeness between you is basically broken.

Dating:

In fact, during a date, girls will be just like boys. They will want to have something happen with the boy, and they will also want to get closer;

But girls will not take the initiative to do this because they are reserved, so we boys still need to take the initiative to judge.

We should not be afraid of rejection, nor should we be afraid of anything. After all, only if we dare to do it will we know the result.

Here I will teach you a relatively simple method to upgrade the relationship between you step by step. This will not only accumulate your own courage, but also make girls prepare accordingly.

For example, break holding hands into small actions, upgrade them step by step, and finally achieve the desired effect.

for example:

While drinking coffee, I accidentally touched the girl’s hand with my hand.

When crossing the street, hold a girl’s wrist.

…..

The purpose of upgrading the relationship step by step is to let the girl adapt to the process, and then hold hands directly in the end. The girl will not have any big reaction, at most she will be surprised.

In fact, holding hands is not a difficult thing, but holding hands is a symbolic action, which represents whether a girl is willing to have subsequent physical contact with you, and also represents whether a girl is willing to have some relationship with you.

Therefore, if a brother finds it difficult to hold hands, it also depends on whether the girl is willing to advance the relationship with you.

But don’t forget the most important point. Since a girl is willing to date you alone, it means that the girl is interested in you. As long as she makes no mistakes during the date, the girl will most likely be willing to go further with you.

End of date:

At the end of the date, if nothing has been done, the girl may feel anxious in her heart;

for example:

Is this boy interested in me?

Is he an elm-headed person?

…..

In fact, during a date, the emotional heat between two people will appear on a curve, gradually climbing up after the initial meeting, and then slowly falling again when it is about to end.

I believe everyone can also feel that at the beginning, you don’t know what to say, and then gradually you talk about everything, and then you may not know what to say because the date is at the end.

Therefore, what the boy does at this time is very important and will determine the direction of the relationship between the two.

If nothing is done in the final stage, then after sending the girl home simply and shabby, the relationship between you may end here and the relationship will not progress.

A girl will only think about a boy asking her out to have a meal, watch a movie and go shopping, and then there will be nothing more. What does the boy mean? Is he just a friend or what?

So at the end, you must leave some signals for girls to upgrade the relationship, even if you don’t do anything, just talk about it.

Finally, I want to emphasize to everyone again that since a girl is willing to date you alone, it is a window in itself. You must seize the opportunity. Upgrade if you need to upgrade, hold hands with if you should hold hands, and hint if you hint. Don’t do nothing. ! ! !