If you want to fall in love and gain love, you must first re-evaluate your current relationship. Being able to grasp the right relationship will make you more targeted in dating girls. The five stages of making friends are summarized:
1: stranger
2: Ordinary friends
3: Get to know your friends
4: Close friends
5: Lovers or besties
Detailed explanation of the five stages of making friends:
When we first came into contact with people and got to know each other, we had never met them before. We could be said to be complete strangers.
So if you want to become an ordinary friend from a stranger, this is easy to say, but it is also difficult to say, and you need to use a variety of methods to improve step by step.
When we met for the first time, we roughly got to know each other’s name, gender, age, taste, and hobbies. We chatted about some common topics, gained some general understanding, and became ordinary friends.
When we become ordinary friends with the other person, if we want to enhance the relationship, we need to chat with him or her regularly. And chatting is also very particular. You don’t always have to look for the other party shamelessly, which will have no effect.
When you are chatting with the other party, you need to have enough topics and attractive enough for the other party to keep chatting with you, and make the other party feel that chatting with you is very interesting and make her like chatting with you. Otherwise, you will only make the other person more and more bored, and eventually they will even ignore you
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When you can make her like chatting with you, it means that you have become more familiar friends.
The definition of a familiar friend: She will remember the existence of people like you, and she also feels that people like you are more interesting. But when you ignore her, or she doesn’t need you, she will still put you aside and ignore you. That’s all.
So the next step is for us to advance from familiar friends to close friends.
What are the characteristics of close friends in general? Close friends will talk to us a lot about privacy issues. What are privacy issues?
For example: family, career, emotions, etc. are all private issues, or in more popular terms, reveal your heart to you. In other words: Once a girl reveals her heart to you, it means that she has regarded you as a close friend.
The definition of close friend: If she regards you as a close friend, then they will remember you as a person and will not forget you for at least six months and one or two years, because they will look for you whenever something happens, even There will be a feeling of dependence on you.
Of course, this is not the end. When we socialize or fall in love with others, we want more than that. We don’t just want close friends, but we also want “strong buddies” or “close lovers.”
Please always remember that no matter when, follow the above five steps to upgrade step by step, and never upgrade by leaps and bounds.
If you are not even friends, just ask your close friends directly to talk about highly confidential issues. The other party will reject you at best, or block you directly at worst.
If you are just ordinary friends and you confess your love, the other party will only block you…
Please always remember that you can say whatever you want as long as the relationship between you is as deep as the relationship between you. Never jump to an escalation, as that will do you no good.
Love requires a reasonable increase in understanding and a deepening of feelings step by step.