Whether it is sex before marriage or after marriage, sexual knowledge is also to learn in advance, just like the first time you drive on the road, will be nervous,
sex is relatively private, so only the two of you continue to learn and explore, will have a good experience.
Most men are learning through AV, but AV is not an “educational” video, but to meet many men’s fantasies of sex, do not imitate one to one AV, especially some do not respect women’s plots.
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Sex must be consensual
Whether before or after marriage, a woman’s will should be respected, and if it is against her will, she can be convicted of rape.
Although the subject of rape protection is women, if a boy is sexually assaulted, he can also report to the police and be sentenced to compulsory indecent assault or intentional injury.
Sex is supposed to be good, so it will only be experienced if both parties agree to it, normal sex will promote the relationship between the two parties, and consult each other before having sex.
The idea that “she is willing to have sex with me by default if she is willing to have a room with me” is not correct, and it is necessary to ask whether the other party is willing, and if the woman is not willing, she should also give a clear answer: I do not accept premarital sex, or I do not feel that the relationship has reached that point.
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Be sure to use contraception
Emergency contraception, also known as the morning after pill, refers to a period of time after unprotected sex or contraceptive failure, in order to prevent pregnancy to take remedial measures. It is effective within 72 hours after hospitalization, and the earlier it is taken, the better.
But the emergency contraceptive is more harmful to the body, this is a forced case, to avoid pregnancy measures, there may be condom slip or damage, this time the need for oral emergency contraceptive contraception.
Condoms are the most common contraceptive effect is relatively good operation is relatively simple contraceptive method, but need to be used correctly, each box of condoms will have instructions, carefully read the instructions and put on according to the diagram.
Interrupted sexual intercourse is external ejaculation, or feel to ejaculate before wearing a condom, this contraceptive failure rate of 19%, because in the early stages of ejaculation there are a small number of sperm into the vagina, enough to lead to pregnancy.
The proper form of contraception is to wear a condom from the beginning to the end of intercourse.
The failure rate of contraception in the safe period is higher, because the girl’s body is not a machine, and it is impossible to ovulate very regularly every time, so do not take chances.
If a boy is not willing to wear a condom, it is not to love you, girls must protect their bodies, whether it is taking emergency contraceptives or abortion, the physical harm is very great.
Condoms are not only contraception, but also the prevention of gynecological diseases and AIDS, if you do not understand the health of the other party, wearing condoms is the most safe way.
Many women’s first night will not bleed, the action must be gentle, and take care of the girl’s feelings, if the girl cries pain must stop.
Foreplay refers to the kissing and caressing before sexual behavior, the two sides enter the state, the woman will secrete more lubricating liquid is often said “love liquid”, the more secreted, the sexual process is not painful.
Most women will have pain for the first time, but this pain will not be particularly strong, the first night action can not be too rude, this is also a process of slow acceptance, and then the pleasure of girls will rise.
The first time a boy may also ejaculate early because of excessive nervousness, or the first time he is stimulated by this kind of stimulation, which is normal, do not want to be perfect the first time.
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Learn proper posture
There are many positions of sexual intercourse, do not try difficult positions at first, and may cause accidents if you are not careful.
Generally, men go up and women go down, if the girls want to master the initiative, or the boys feel too tired to change the posture of the women go up and men go down, learning a variety of postures is conducive to delaying the time of sexual intercourse and experiencing different feelings.
Some positions have requirements for the softness of the woman’s body, do not be forced, and girls do not want to be forced.
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Hygienic and clean
After sexual intercourse to wash the private parts, you can wipe with a wet towel, it is best to take a bath, after the cleaning is very necessary, can not be ignored.
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Afterplay comfort
“A man after a cigarette” approach is very offensive, after finishing everyone is more tired, hug and sleep is very good, say a few words of love, are bonus points.
Otherwise, girls will feel that they do not cherish it and leave it alone, so that the experience of girls is very poor, and over time they are not willing to have relations.
For the first time, be sure to be in a comfortable and undisturbed environment, do not think about what woods to pursue stimulation, and do not share a house, the voice is heard is a very embarrassing thing, and it is not convenient to take a bath afterwards.
Comfortable hotel is a good choice, the atmosphere is also better, before booking the hotel can ask each other’s opinion, whether you like the bathtub, or set a couple hotel, the sense of ceremony is necessary.
Girls remember to wear a set of underwear, boys underwear color is not too flower, otherwise it is really easy to destroy the atmosphere, the first time will leave a deep impression on both sides.
No matter what has the first time, don’t be afraid and don’t be too nervous, as the saying goes that practice makes perfect, beginners will be nervous on the road, the car is naturally the old driver.
We want to look at sex correctly and rationally, just like eating and sleeping, it is as ordinary as usual, and there is no need to have too much psychological burden, and a more harmonious sexual relationship will promote the feelings of both sides, which is also a process that requires continuous learning and exploration.